What can you expect from EFT for couples?
Being caught in a relationship where your needs are not being met and where you don't feel heard or understood, is debilitating. Now there is help in the form of…
Who is EFT Couples Therapy not intended for
If you and your partner are experiencing the following problems, EFT is unlikely to be suited for you until these issues are resolved:Domestic Violence/Intimate Partner ViolenceIn cases where the couple…
Which couples are best suited for EFT Therapy?
Couples struggling with one another by finding themselves in the same circular fights again and again. Partners who don't know how to communicate their deeper feelings with one another and…
Still Face experiment comes to life in adult couples
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a0IYQGXiJxw Revolutionary film footage of a couple in distress and the affect of the 'still face experiment' on a partner compared to an infants lack of response from a mother.…
Rethinking Narcissism
The Bad-and Surprising Good-About Feeling SpecialIn 'Rethinking Narcissism,' Dr. Malkin presents narcissism on a spectrum, too much is problematic and too little, it turns out, is a problem as well.…
Not Just Friends
The seminal read for partners when an attachment injury such as infidelity has occurred. Shirley Glass helps both the person who cheated and the one who was cheated on understand…
Hold Me Tight by Dr. Susan Johnson
The 'Demon Dialogues' and ways to stop the cycle and pain. 'Hold Me Tight' by Dr. Susan Johnson is a must read for any couple embarking on the journey of…
How long does EFT Couples Therapy last?
While there is no exact answer to this question, the research shows that Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) has been demonstrated to help couples without histories of trauma, affairs, addictions, and…
An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Couples: The Two of Us by Veronica Kallos-Lilly and Jennifer Fitzgerald
As an Emotionally Focused Therapist who works with couples in distress, I have been recommending this book as an adjunct to the couples work since it's arrival. I do this…
A.C.E. test, trauma and healing with Emotionally Focused Therapy
The A.C.E. test (Adverse Childhood Experiences), has gained much attention from researchers, therapists and doctors alike. It is a profound research study involving over 17,000 medical patients who have experienced…