Turtle and the Badger as it relates to EFT negative cycles
This is a new video on how partners become stuck in the negative, interactional cycle where pursuers are a bit like badgers and withdrawers become more like turtles. A great…
Demon Dialogues
When it comes to arguing couples tend to fall into certain patterns called the 'Demon Dialogues' (click on the link to learn even more). EFT helps us identify where couples…
How Our Past Family Generational Trauma Affects Us Today
As we learn more about trauma from our childhood, recent science studies shows us trauma is passed down through the generations. This is important because safe, loving connections helps reduce…
The Roller Coaster of Emotion in Couples Therapy Book
The Roller Coaster of Emotion in Couples Therapy Are you considering couples therapy? Reading The Roller Coaster of Emotions in Couples Therapy will help you understand the benefits of couples…
How to Find the Best Couple Therapist for Your Relationship
At last, you've made the decision to find the right couple therapist focused on helping you with your relationship, but now you are faced with where to turn and whom…
EFT Meaning
"If we can reveal our inner vulnerability to our partner, we can have a corrective emotional experience if our partner empathically and compassionately responds. So I can say to you,…
The Costs of Divorce vs. the best Couple Therapy
Awhile back, you discussed couple therapy with your partner, but for whatever reason, it didn't happen then. Turns out most couples come to therapy a good 6 years later then…
What can you expect from EFT for couples?
Being caught in a relationship where your needs are not being met and where you don't feel heard or understood, is debilitating. Now there is help in the form of…
Who is EFT Couples Therapy not intended for
If you and your partner are experiencing the following problems, EFT is unlikely suited for you until these issues are resolved: Domestic Violence/Intimate Partner Violence In cases where the couple…
Which couples are best suited for EFT Therapy?
Couples struggling with one another by finding themselves in the same circular fights again and again. Partners who don't know how to communicate their deeper feelings with one another and…