https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a0IYQGXiJxw Revolutionary film footage of a couple in distress and the affect of the 'still face experiment' on a partner compared to an infants lack of response from a mother.…
The Bad-and Surprising Good-About Feeling Special In 'Rethinking Narcissism,' Dr. Malkin presents narcissism on a spectrum, too much is problematic and too little, it turns out, is a problem as…
The seminal read for partners when an attachment injury such as infidelity has occurred. Shirley Glass helps both the person who cheated and the one who was cheated on understand…
The 'Demon Dialogues' and ways to stop the cycle and pain. 'Hold Me Tight' by Dr. Susan Johnson is a must read for any couple embarking on the journey of…
While there is no exact answer to this question, the research shows that Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) has been demonstrated to help couples without histories of trauma, affairs, addictions, and…
As an Emotionally Focused Therapist who works with couples in distress, I have been recommending this book as an adjunct to the couples work since it's arrival. I do this…
The A.C.E. test (Adverse Childhood Experiences), has gained much attention from researchers, therapists and doctors alike. It is a profound research study involving over 17,000 medical patients who have experienced…
After helping many couples where there has been infidelity, one of the sure fire ways facilitate the early process of reconnection, is for the partner who had the affair to…
Couples therapy for infidelity or affairs is more effective if the partner who had the affair is no longer engaging in contact with the person they had the affair with.…
So the topic of expressing needs vs. being needy came up recently and I thought this was such an important issue that 'needs' to be more fully explored and understood.…